Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Dream a Little Dream

He is arguably one of the most polarizing athletes in sports today. Why is it that we love to hate Chad Ochocinco? Perhaps it's because he had the audacity to change his last name. (Oh wait - has he gone back to Johnson? I can't keep up).  Or maybe it's because of his choreographed end zone celebrations, his VH1 reality dating show (coincidently, he's now engaged to another reality show star Evelyn Lozada from Basketball Wives), or his Batman and Robin-esque T.Ocho Show. And now, he's trying out for a spot on a Major League Soccer team - Sporting Kansas City.

Before you say this is just another publicity stunt, and while I agree that Chad Ochocinco seems to love and bask in the limelight, is he not allowed to have goals and dreams outside of football?

Many will argue that he's being paid millions of dollars to be a top NFL wide receiver. And while you may say that his non-football pursuits have detracted from his game, don't you have hobbies and interests outside of your 9-5 job? So why should an athlete like Chad Ochocinco be any different? And since there are no OTAs or other organized team activities, what better time than now for him to go after a dream?

On Monday, Chad Ochocinco played in his 1st organized soccer game since the 10th grade, running with Sporting Kansas City's reserve team. In Matt Moseley's article on SI.com, Ochocinco was quoted as saying,"It's been a dream come true for me to be on the pitch, man, with so many of these guys who are elite athletes at the top of their game. I enjoyed it."
Source: KansasCity.com
He went on to say, "I'm satisfied," he said. "My dream has been answered, to be able to come onto the pitch and play for an MLS team. It doesn't have to be against someone professional. Just to be out here was enough for me. I can go home. I can die tomorrow and be satisfied. I can go to heaven and tell God, 'Man, I played professional soccer and I'm good."'

Wow. How many of us can say that we got a chance to live out our dreams? So instead
of bashing Ochocinco, I will argue that we should look to him for inspiration. Whether it is a taking cooking class, pursuing a graduate degree, running a marathon, or starting a sports blog :-), know that it's never too late to go after your dreams.

Tell me - what are your dreams? Now what are you waiting for? Go for it!

Monday, March 28, 2011

David Slays Goliath

Happy Monday Folks! Hope you enjoyed the weekend. If yours was anything like mine, it was filled with the ups and downs of everything that is March Madness. As I mentioned last week, Richmond was ecstatic about having two teams in the Sweet 16. Our town was renamed Hoopstown USA & even our mayor got into the spirit with an appearance on ESPN's First Take.

So I got over my bracket bitterness and was able to muster up some excitement for Friday's games when both of the Richmond teams were scheduled to play. Well, University of Richmond got crushed by Kansas. I'll spare you the gory details. It's just too painful to recap. So I regrouped and put the rest of my eggs in the proverbial basket with my alma mater Virginia Commonwealth University. And they did not disappoint. Friday night's game was a thriller and by the end my nerves were shot! The game ended with a bounce pass and score under the basket to give VCU the win by one in overtime against Florida State. Hello Elite 8!   

Sunday, I was hype and ready for the game. Tipoff against #1 Kansas was scheduled for 2:20pm. The house was clean, wings were ordered, and Facebook was up and running so I could keep up with comments from my fellow VCU alumni and other fans. VCU dominated in the first half and walked back into the locker room with a 41-27 lead. Facebook blew up:

"Richmond Spiders, we're avenging you, my neighbors!"
"I wonder what all the VCU haters are saying now."
"...wondering when the rest of the world is gonna figure out what my fellow Rams already know......THIS IS RAM NATION!!!!!"


Not so fast my Facebook friends. Kansas started the second half with a bang and showed why they're a #1 seed. They pulled the game to within four and VCU Coach Shaka Smart earned a technical foul. It seemed the wheels were starting to fall off for VCU. Then, when it seemed like the game could be lost, VCU started to pull away again. My alma mater danced away with a 71-61 victory - #11 VCU defeated #1 Kansas. Seriously?! VCU is in the Final Four??!!
Source: Richmond Times-Dispatch
Facebook Nation really went off:
"I couldn't make it downtown to scream on Broad St. so I just finished running & screaming up & down my OWN street... GO VCU!!!"
"VCU told them we can show you better than we can tell you!!!"
"FINAL FOUR BABY!!!!!!"
"Go V C U!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

This one was my favorite Facebook status and sums up how I feel too:
"Wow!! I love you VCU. Well I guess I will finally hang up the degrees..Signed A proud Ram"


Next up VCU faces # 8 Butler - another mid-major conference cinderella team in the Final Four. If Dick Vitale had to eat crow before, I wonder how he feels now.

Source: USA Today

 


Friday, March 25, 2011

WWYD: To Play or Not to Play. That is the Question

I'd like to introduce my first feature series called What Would You Do (WWYD). In this feature, I'll throw out a scenario and then let you weigh in with what you would do. Some topics will be fun, some more serious. But all will get you to think about life and its circumstances and maybe open your mind to a different point of view. Of course this is all hypothetical because we really don't know what we'd do unless we were actually in that situation.
So let's get it started. Here's the first WWYD...
In last night’s episode of Private Practice, a high school wrestler complaining of dizziness visited the practice with his parents to get medical clearance so he could wrestle in the conference finals. The pediatrician detected a slight heart murmur and referred him to a cardiac specialist for a more thorough examination. There was a lot at stake with this match. You see, this young man was counting on a Division 1 scholarship. He would be the first in his family to go to college. They anticipated that there would be lots of scouts in attendance at the big match to see him compete.
The cardiologist diagnosed the young man with a borderline case of hypertrophic cardiomyopathy, a leading cause of sudden cardiac death among young athletes, according to an article published by the American Heart Association. He may never have a problem or he could die suddenly. But there was no way to be sure without further tests and monitoring over several months. The conference finals were in a few days. There was some discussion among the pediatrician and cardiologist on the level of risk and whether he should be allowed to wrestle.
What would you do? Think you’ve got it all figured out? Keep reading.
The pediatrician ultimately decided that it was too much of a risk and refused to sign the medical waiver. The family left, determined to find a way for the young man to get cleared and the young man's mother did just that. He wrestled in the match and won...then collapsed minutes later. The young man was left in a medically induced coma and it was uncertain whether he'd ever recover. The storyline ended with the mother, at her son’s beside, sharing a letter received that from UCLA offering him a full scholarship. As it turned out, UCLA had already made the offer before the wrestling finals.
Earlier this month, 16-year-old Wes Leonard died moments after playing in a high school basketball game. Leonard was a hero after making the game-winning shot in overtime. He began celebrating with his team and then collapsed. Leonard died from cardiac arrest due to an enlarged heart. Then a little more than week later, high school junior Robert Garza collapsed during a timeout of an AAU basketball tournament game. The cause of Garza’s death has not yet been determined.
While it is unclear whether the families of these two young men were aware of their conditions, we do know that athletes are required to pass physicals before they’re allowed to compete. So it begs the question – how thorough are the physicals given to young athletes? And do we as parents push our children too far, thinking they have to perform no matter what the risks for a chance at a better future?
So tell me, do you agree with this mother's decision in the Private Practice episode or do you side with the pediatrician? What would you do if your child were in a similar situation?
Lots of questions here and there are no right answers. Weigh in and let me know your thoughts.

Thursday, March 24, 2011

Why I Should Have Let My Four-Year-Old Pick My NCAA Tournament Bracket

It’s NCAA basketball tournament time and Richmond is all abuzz because both of our universities’ men’s basketball teams, Virginia Commonwealth University (my alma mater) and University of Richmond, have reached the Sweet 16. If both teams win their next game, they will face each other for a spot in the Final Four. But I can’t get into the excitement of the Sweet 16 and the fact that two hometown teams in mid-major conferences have made it this far into the tournament. Why? Because my bracket sucks.
I’m not an insider like Jay Bilas or Doug Gottlieb, so I struggled a bit filling out my bracket. Admittedly, I didn’t really pay close attention to men’s college basketball this season and didn’t even follow my beloved Duke Blue Devils that closely. I don’t think I watched a full game all season. However, the day before brackets were due, I did frantically spend some time checking out the rankings, past schedules, players, etc. to select the teams I thought would win each game. What I failed to do was ask my four-year-old daughter. Apparently that’s where I went wrong.
I first came to this realization earlier this week when my former boss called to tell me that she, her husband, and her five-year-old daughter all entered their brackets on ESPN.com. Her daughter picked teams on the most random criteria – animal mascots she liked, places she’s been, etc. After last weekend’s games, her husband received an email from ESPN informing them that their daughter’s bracket was in the top 2800 out of almost 6 million entries. Really? I’m ranked 152,180 in the Mike and Mike group and 5,034,837 overall.
Then I heard today that Matt Hasselbeck’s five-year-old son also submitted a bracket to ESPN and he’s ranked 103. He made his picks based on mascot. WTH?! Clearly there’s something to this kids picking winners thing.
Another case in point. We have a family football pool where each member of our immediate family picks three teams – your favorite team (GO 49ers!), an up and coming team (must have had below a .500 record the previous season), and another team of your choice (usually a strong team you think is going to be a winner). My husband let our then three-year-old pick his third team. She picked the Green Bay Packers. And they won the Superbowl.
Lesson learned. From now on I will let my four-year-old make all of my sports picks. And I will take all of the credit.